In lieu of a birthday party this year (not that Elisa even wanted one) I decided to take her on a weekend surprise trip up to South Jordan, Utah to see her cousin Aaliyah! It was hard to stay quiet about it since I was excited. The flight to SLC left Friday at 4pm. I picked Elisa up a little bit early from school in order to make sure we made the flight on time. Unfortunately, just as I was checking her out, I got an email informing me that the flight was delayed on hour. So, then I played it as I was just picking her up early to take her out...which I did. We went the shops at Norterra and she picked out a cookie at Crumbl and some makeup at Sephora--she even got a couple freebies since it was her birthday. At this point, Elisa had no clue that I was taking her anywhere else. I had her backpack with her clothes in the back seat (I took Erik's Lexus because he needed the van to take the boys to the fathers and sons campout), but she didn't see it. She started to get suspicious and wanted to know where we were going when I was driving on the freeway towards the airport. By the time we arrived at the airport, she thought I was picking up Aailyah to stay with her for her birthday. Good guess, but not quite! When I parked in the airport parking, she mostly had it figured out. That stupid flight got delayed even longer so we sat for quite some time. Darn Frontier. 50/50 chance if the flight is on time or not. While we were waiting for the flight, I let her open one of her physical gifts-purple Bluetooth earbuds. I also bought her a fruit drink at Starbucks since she was thirsty. We didn't even get to sit together on the flight, but its only an hour so it was no big deal.

Elisa and her birthday pancake. I sent her to school afterwards with no hints as to what I had planned!
Elisa chose a strawberry shortcake cookie at Crumbl. Still no clue as to her upcoming adventure!
She knew where we were going by now! She was excited.
Lisa picked us up, and surprise! Tootsie was in the car. She hung out with Lisa and me that evening. For the rest of the weekend, Elisa had fun with her cousin Aaliyh. I'm not exactly sure all that they did together, but I was having fun myself. My mom and Michael were out on their mega-visitation trip, so I mostly hung out with Lisa. We even got to go out for dinner with Tootsie, Mark, and my Dad. We also did lots of shopping. What a short but fun weekend! I'm glad we got to go.
The cousins were excited to see each other, can you tell?
Having fun in the tree
Elisa loves going to Cupbop
Eating at Sol Agave. I shared a meal with Tootsie. Mark, my dad, and Lisa also all came. We had a good time.
3 out of the 4 of my mom's kitties. You can kind of see Dolores's (the black cat) messed up leg. Poor kitty. She has to drag it around since it doesn't work anymore--one of the vet technicians pulled her leg out of it socket. The vet himself tried to fix it, but it was an unsuccessful surgery. Despite all this, Dolores gets around all right and even manages to run away when it is her pill time.
We picked this cake out for Elisa at Sam's Club. Elisa was grouchy and overly tired, so she refused to come down and let us sing happy birthday to her. Lisa and I dug into the cake anyway.
Poor Elisa got almost no sleep the night before, you can see it in the picture. I gave her a slice of cake with no singing--as requested. I also gave her a few gifts (Strawberry Shortcake cups and gummies) that I found at TJMaxx.
Aaliyah saying her last-minute goodbyes to Elisa right before she left. The flight home was on time (yay). She got dropped off at school when we got back to Phoenix, so she didn't have to miss so much school.
Later that Monday evening, we had a little family "party" to celebrate her birthday. I made her a strawberry pie and gave her a few more gifts. I didn't buy her a whole lot since the trip was her gift, but I couldn't resist buying her the Kendra Scott Elisa necklace. Yep, Elisa is its name! It was perfect for her; I got her the rose quartz since that's her favorite gem. Her friend Jayde also gave her a basket of gifts.
Strawberry pie for Elisa!
Opening her necklace
The Elisa necklace for Elisa!
Jayde's gifts to Elisa. She's a nice friend for Elisa to have.
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May 23. As part of yet another celebration of Elisa turning 14, I put together a little outing to a tea house in Cave Creek, The English Rose tearoom. Originally, I was going to have the brunch Elisa's birthday weekend, but since I decided to go to Utah that weekend instead, I changed the tearoom date for May 23, a day or two after school let out. I had been to this tea house before a couple of times. I thought it would be fun to invite a small group of shared friends plus an ex-Young Women's leader (Ms. Shelly) that Elisa and her friends really liked. It was fun, if a little pricey, and the girls got showered with gifts from Ms. Shelly. We all had a good time, and maybe we will try another tea house sometime.
The group from both sides of the table.
Opening their gifts
Elisa was given a cupcake for her birthday
Happy Happy 14th birthday to Elisa!